diff --git a/python/sglang/srt/disaggregation/decode.py b/python/sglang/srt/disaggregation/decode.py
index d0293fba3..4be51ca1f 100644
--- a/python/sglang/srt/disaggregation/decode.py
+++ b/python/sglang/srt/disaggregation/decode.py
@@ -725,7 +725,9 @@ class DecodePreallocQueue(DecodeHiCachePreallocMixin):
                 error_msg = f"Could not fetch prefill parallel info from {bootstrap_addr} after {count} attempts"
                 logger.error(error_msg)
                 for decode_req in reqs:
-                    decode_req.kv_receiver.abort()
+                    # kv_receiver may be None from a prior self.queue cleanup
+                    if decode_req.kv_receiver is not None:
+                        decode_req.kv_receiver.abort()
                 del self._ensure_retry_count[bootstrap_addr]
                 del self._ensure_last_attempt_time[bootstrap_addr]
             else:
@@ -837,6 +839,14 @@ class DecodePreallocQueue(DecodeHiCachePreallocMixin):
                 failed_reqs.append(decode_req)
                 indices_to_remove.add(i)
 
+        # DecodeRequest is shared between self.queue and self.pending_reqs;
+        # drop failed reqs from both
+        if failed_reqs:
+            failed_ids = {id(r) for r in failed_reqs}
+            self.pending_reqs = [
+                r for r in self.pending_reqs if id(r) not in failed_ids
+            ]
+
         # HiSparse physical constraint: max requests by device buffer capacity.
         # Each admitted req needs padded_buffer_size from hisparse device pool.
         # waiting_queue reqs already have device buffers (allocated in admit_request_direct),
diff --git a/test/registered/unit/disaggregation/test_decode_queue_cleanup.py b/test/registered/unit/disaggregation/test_decode_queue_cleanup.py
index 03184646d..6cb9f53da 100644
--- a/test/registered/unit/disaggregation/test_decode_queue_cleanup.py
+++ b/test/registered/unit/disaggregation/test_decode_queue_cleanup.py
@@ -66,6 +66,70 @@ class TestDecodeQueueCleanup(CustomTestCase):
             [req], req.return_logprob
         )
 
+    def test_prealloc_abort_also_drops_from_pending_reqs(self):
+        # Same DecodeRequest lives in both queue and pending_reqs (add() slow
+        # path). Aborting must drop it from both, and compare by identity since
+        # DecodeRequest's dataclass __eq__ would compare the tensor receiver.
+        class BadEqReceiver(FakeReceiver):
+            def __eq__(self, other):
+                raise TypeError("use identity comparison, not value equality")
+
+            __hash__ = object.__hash__
+
+        receiver = BadEqReceiver()
+        req = SimpleNamespace(
+            rid="abort-shared",
+            finished_reason=FINISH_ABORT("aborted"),
+            return_logprob=False,
+        )
+        decode_req = SimpleNamespace(req=req, kv_receiver=receiver)
+
+        queue = DecodePreallocQueue.__new__(DecodePreallocQueue)
+        queue.queue = [decode_req]
+        queue.pending_reqs = [decode_req]  # same object, dual ownership
+        queue.retracted_queue = []
+        queue._resolve_pending_reqs = MagicMock()
+        queue._update_handshake_waiters = MagicMock()
+        queue._uses_swa_tail_prealloc = MagicMock(return_value=False)
+        queue._allocatable_token_budgets = MagicMock(return_value=0)
+        queue._hicache_pending_restore_tokens = MagicMock(return_value=0)
+
+        scheduler = MagicMock()
+        scheduler.running_batch.reqs = []
+        scheduler.enable_priority_scheduling = False
+        scheduler.enable_hisparse = False
+        scheduler.output_streamer = MagicMock()
+        queue.scheduler = scheduler
+
+        # Must not raise on the receiver __eq__ above.
+        preallocated, failed = queue.pop_preallocated()
+
+        self.assertEqual(preallocated, [])
+        self.assertEqual(failed, [decode_req])
+        self.assertEqual(queue.queue, [])
+        self.assertTrue(all(r is not decode_req for r in queue.pending_reqs))
+        self.assertIsNone(decode_req.kv_receiver)
+
+    def test_ensure_prefill_info_tolerates_cleared_receiver(self):
+        # A req whose kv_receiver was already cleared must not crash on .abort().
+        queue = DecodePreallocQueue.__new__(DecodePreallocQueue)
+        queue._max_ensure_retries = 1
+        queue._ensure_retry_interval = 0
+        queue._ensure_retry_count = {"127.0.0.1:11500": 0}
+        queue._ensure_last_attempt_time = {}
+        queue.kv_manager = MagicMock()
+        queue.kv_manager.try_ensure_parallel_info.return_value = False
+
+        cleared_req = SimpleNamespace(
+            req=SimpleNamespace(rid="cleared"), kv_receiver=None
+        )
+        addr_to_reqs = {"127.0.0.1:11500": [cleared_req]}
+
+        ready, remaining = queue._ensure_prefill_info(addr_to_reqs)
+
+        self.assertEqual(ready, {})
+        self.assertEqual(remaining, [])
+
     @patch("sglang.srt.disaggregation.decode.release_kv_cache")
     @patch("sglang.srt.disaggregation.decode.prepare_abort")
     @patch("sglang.srt.disaggregation.decode.poll_and_all_reduce")